I do not consider My submissives to be “lesser than” males who don’t submit to women, despite My Female Supremacy beliefs. Yes, I am an online pro domme that offers FemDom training. No, I don’t humiliate and degrade men all day every day. Female Domination and BDSM can be methods used to restore balance. There is yin and yang energy at play here, just as there is in the rest of the world. Are there aspects of female domination that seem to be cruel, negative, and heartless out of context? Absolutely! Many of My clips include “extreme humiliation,” and I indeed say some incredibly hurtful things in those clips.
FemDom training is more than just humiliation and abuse.
However, the entire concept of training a slave revolves around breaking someone down so that you can rebuild them properly. The process is remarkably similar to the idea of a boot camp, which is why I titled My first slave training program, The Better Beta Bootcamp. Many only ever experience out of context snippets of Female Supremacy. They probably will never get to understand that it is all about balance. There is no point in continuously destroying a submissive mentally and physically. If you consistently break someone down while never making the switch to building them back up, that is not training. Eventually, you just start causing damage. Female Supremacy and Female Domination are not just kinks and fetishes; they are lifestyles that can have an extraordinarily strong and positive effect on your entire life! But only if you can appreciate the “big picture” element that is at play here.
Forget what you thought you knew about FemDom training.
Remember that what you have seen in porn and FemDom/FinDom Twitter is a very tiny portion of what FemDom should be. You’re only looking at the tip of the iceberg. They are extreme fantasies created because they have high market value. Porn can be a way for men to engage in fantasies that are not entirely realistic or convenient. You must try to forget everything you thought you knew about FemDom from these sources, as they are NOT educational, they are entertainment. They only present the most marketable aspects of female domination and what is going to make the producer the most money the fastest.
Even I enjoy some extreme female domination fantasies.
You will even find that many of My clips include unrealistic fantasies or scenarios. Some aspects of FemDom should remain fantasies, yet still, be enjoyed. While I enjoy many of the extreme fantasies that must always remain a fantasy, I also have a deep appreciation for all levels of Female Domination. If you can blend the fun fantasies with the even more beautiful realities of Female Supremacy, that is when the magic happens. The breaking down of a sub is enjoyable to Me, I am a sadist, but it didn’t truly satisfy Me. Humiliation is just a bit of fun for Me, and the molding of the submissive over time is what feeds My spirit.
True FemDom sub training is different than you’d expect.
Real female domination and female supremacy both originate from a place of love and nurturing. It’s easy to understand the punishment and reward system when it comes to raising the next generation. Still, many overlook the effectiveness of applying the same concept with adults. I use a system of punishments and rewards to train subs to be better humans and submissives. I even use chastity training to help boys overcome masturbation addictions. By turning their focus on Me, rather than their selfish desires, I can begin to restore balance.
Is FemDom training just glorified abuse?
A parent does not punish their child because they hate them; they punish them because they love them and believe the punishment is for the best. This scenario can also help clarify the line between discipline and abusive behavior. It is entirely possible to “harm” someone in the name of love. I’m not looking to open up some grand debate about child-rearing methods; I am merely trying to provide some perspective. Love is not a simple concept, nor is female domination. When you are doing harmful things for the right reasons, it will lead to more positivity down the road. If you only ever view the action itself without considering the context and the why you will never actually understand the situation.
Female supremacy is natural and very real, not just a kink!
I believe that it is the natural order of the universe for women to lead while men follow and please. Women are natural nurturers, caregivers, and mothers. Genetically and physically speaking, women can multitask, make decisions quickly, and ready to raise children and control men. Biologically females are meant to be the leaders, while men exist to impregnate and protect. Males have simple roles in this world, while women are far more complex. Consider how it is out in the wild. I am sure you have watched a nature documentary or two. In most species, it is clear to see that females are the ones driving evolution and maintaining balance in the world. The males will do whatever is necessary to convince the Female that their genes are valuable enough to allow them to mate with Her. If they can’t pass the test, their genes will end with them.
The male desire for FemDom training is natural and healthy.
That inner drive to please and impress women isn’t a sign of weakness or failure; it is an instinct in place to keep the universe balanced and moving forward. To Me, allowing a man to fulfill his natural urges to serve and protect the female gender is incredibly positive! The truth is that there are far more positive ripple effects of female domination. Simply allowing a man to embrace his true nature is cathartic in itself. Male submission is natural, pure, and healthy. Submission should be a regular experience of any man hoping to live a balanced life. Mother Nature did not design men for leading. Forcing a male into an “alpha” role can be damaging to their spirit and mental stability. Unfortunately, society’s expectations have warped many men’s views on women and even their sexuality.
Submissives are Broken Down During FemDom Training to Rebuild
Training a submissive involves so much more than only breaking them down through whatever kinky methods interest the two players. You may find it wrapped in many different packages online, but the main goal of slave training should be to make the sub into a better submissive at the end of a day. There are lots of games to play and scenarios to act out to achieve this. Many of which do seem cruel and extreme from the outside looking into a scene. I think you should know by now that a Domme does not intend to strip away the worth of their sub. She’d much rather make them more valuable to Her through Her training. There may be some behaviors and traits of toxic masculinity that do need stripping away, but that’s just trimming the fat.
Dommes don’t want to own a submissive who has no self-control.
Women don’t desire weak and pathetic bumbling idiots serving them. Sure, sometimes it’s fun to make boys nervous and vulnerable with our bodies to have some fun, but we don’t want a sub who has no self-control or logical thinking skills. I am not here to control you every second of every day, that’s not reasonable or healthy for anybody. I am here to guide you and give you the tools you need to be successful, but it is up to the sub to work with their Domme for their training. That means continuing your practice even when you and your Domme are apart. We are working together to make you into a better submissive, and a great sub is valuable to their Domme. A chaotic and confused sub is not useful, not yet at least.
Good boys are Valuable to their Superior, not Worthless.
A beta can be considered a supporting role. The Female is, of course, the main character and the focus of the story, but she could not be where She is without the support of her best betas. Again, I am incredibly grateful for every submissive who serves Me in the ways that I truly desire. This blog and this entire Empire would not exist without My good boys who served Me selflessly every step of the way. I built this whole FemDom Empire on the backs of happy and grateful submissive men. I don’t force anybody to stay; they happily return to Me every single day of their own free will.
Positive Female Supremacy can Enhance your Entire Life.
Serving a Goddess and Her Empire gives you a chance to become something bigger than yourself as you explore and evolve. She provides sanctuary and training advice while the sub offers their service and gratitude. The longer you continue your training, the more you will get to know your true self. You probably can’t experience valid submission in an hour session with a stranger you just met online. By serving one Goddess selflessly and dedicating yourself to Her and your journey as a submissive, you are making it possible to embrace your submissive side fully. It takes a lot of time, training, and trust to be able to live a life in a near-constant state of submissive bliss, but it is achievable! Letting a woman lead and guide you is an excellent way to get back to your roots and live a more natural life.
The Patriarchy frowns on Female Supremacy (obviously!)
Unfortunately, since submission is such a basic instinct, there are many layers of nonsense to peel back to let it resurface. There is a submissive spirit at the core of every single male on this earth, but there is just so much covering it up; it is often difficult to even recognize. Some men have more false beliefs than others that mask their true selves. Society is backward, and men believe they must fall in line with the toxic masculinity that mainstream culture imposes on men, or they will be considered a failure. Submissive training heavily involves removing the toxicity in the sub’s mind as more natural and truthful ideals permeate their consciousness. You can’t escape mother nature; she is all too powerful. Your choices are to acknowledge Her truths and start living a balanced and happy life or spend your life in complete chaos, trying to run from reality.
Female Domination is about establishing a natural balance.
Giving more than you receive is crucial on the path towards happiness and balance. Worship, sending tributes, expressing gratitude, as well as getting in touch with your true self are all necessary for true happiness in a submissive. Giving more than you receive is how you cleanse your soul. Humans desire to be loving and generous creatures; we instinctively want to live in a society or pack. We have basic needs for human connection, but many don’t know how to go about healthily satisfying their urges.
Positive FemDom Training can be Considered Evil for the Sake of Good.
Female domination training can be toxic to those who don’t fully understand it or seek it out for the wrong reasons. But that’s true for just about anything in this world. You can overindulge, overspend, misconstrue, and get addicted to anything you do. If you only ever seek out the portion of female domination that focuses on breaking the submissive down, then you are going to face chaos and confusion. The positives outweigh the negative aspects of female domination s. The initial breaking down of the submissive is followed by discipline and punishments during training. Still, it is negativity for the sake of more positive behavior in the future.
Female Supremacy training can be used to restore balance and peace.
Female Domination and sub training are all about restoring balance, remember? You can’t have balance if you are only focusing on the negative aspects, or if you only focus on the positive aspects. First, you break the submissive down, then the rebuild and training begin. Unfortunately, it seems many are just reading the first chapter over and over again before closing the book. Sure, that first chapter might be fantastic, but don’t you want to know what comes next?
Female supremacy is so much more than kink alone!
If you start looking past the kink when it comes to FemDom training, you may be surprised at what goes on between sessions. Real female domination doesn’t begin and end with a session; it is so much more than that. Sessions are amazing but consider sessions to be the equivalent of sex in a romantic relationship. There is a lot that happens in between sexy time in the bedroom. If your relationship is JUST sex, neither partner will be delighted. The same goes for BDSM and Female Domination relationships. You need more than the scene where you break down the sub’s will; you need the rebuilding and the training.
Thorough FemDom training effects your entire life!
By following My guidance, My pets have accomplished enormous personal growth and improvement, all in the name of pleasing Me. I make it clear that I require a submissive to become valuable to Me for Me to desire to own them, which means that they have to have their life together. There is much kinky fun, but they are ultimately working towards earning their seat in My Empire. I have used My training methods to get My subs to lose weight, stop smoking, stop drinking, start eating better, and many other little improvements to their lives. The truth of the matter is that by forcing them to follow My path and start taking care of themselves, they are making themselves far more appealing to Me.
Women in your Life will Appreciate your FemDom Training.
A pleasant byproduct of this training is that often subs that are in a committed relationship outside of My Empire see immediate improvements to their relationships outside of the Empire as well. My favorite thing to hear from a sub is when they tell Me that their wife or mother noticed the improvements in their behavior. That is one of My biggest motivators, knowing that by training these men I am not only serving Myself and padding My next paycheck, I am also improving the lives of countless other women whom I will never even meet. There are many women out there who have no idea that I exist, yet they are reaping the benefits of My training. If that isn’t enough proof that FemDom can have a profound positive effect, I don’t know what would convince you.
Loving female domination comes naturally to Me.
I am walking a path that called to Me to follow it. Although the success I found has been incredible, I am not just in this for the money. I followed My heart, and this is where I found Myself. Yes, this is a business and how I maintain My lifestyle, but it is so much more to Me. It has blended with My lifestyle. Nurturing FemDom has even allowed Me to establish proper balance in My own life. Positive Female Domination has had such a profound effect on My life and the lives of My pets; I hope that you can reap the benefits as well.