All men should learn orgasm control and how NOT to cum fast when sexually intimate with women (OR other men, OR any other human). But, unfortunately, I encounter SO MANY men that cum WAY TOO FAST. For example, consider THIS: “Men typically require two to ten minutes of intercourse to reach orgasm. However, some women orgasm within 30 seconds of self-stimulation, while most reach climax after 20 minutes.*” That means that it takes women, on average, at least two to three times LONGER than men to cum. So if you are reading this, you probably cum too fast!

How NOT to cum too Fast

I am a dominatrix specializing in gentle FemDom with years of experience training men (and other people with penises) online. I have often been able to help men to last longer during sexual encounters with My expertise and guidance. There are many methods I can use, and I am highly successful, as long as the male in question obeys My commands.

I have worked with hundreds of men suffering from premature ejaculation, masturbation addictions, virgins, men with small penises, and more. Usually, men tend to be suffering from a combination of sexual struggles. At this point, I have seen/heard just about it all.

A lot of men also have what many normal people would consider a “weird fetish.” However, I can assure you; I’ve probably encountered (and enjoyed) weirder. So if you are someone with a “weird fetish,” don’t worry about sharing your fantasies with Me. I don’t judge men due to their weird fetishes or ailments; I only judge based on character and behavior. So don’t worry; you’re safe in My FemDom Empire.

If you are serious about learning how to NOT cum so fast and satisfy others sexually, you need My expertise and training.

WHY do men cum too fast?

Sexually, men tend to be self-centered and particularly phallus and orgasm-oriented. I mean that from the time of initial stimulation (whether it be visual or via another sense) to the time climax is reached is far too short. Nevertheless, men often come across some stimulation that arouses them. I mean it when I say OFTEN. You can probably relate, can’t you? Suddenly, the boy’s brain goes blank and can seem to ONLY focus on the possibility of penile stimulation and ultimately orgasm. (This can be why men tend to think orgasms are the solutions to their problems. HINT: they aren’t!)

If a man is alone in this situation, more often than not, they whip out their dick and quickly rub one out. Doing this repeatedly reinforces the absurd thought process of “if I am aroused, I NEED TO CUM NOW!” This obviously leads to problems when that man has the opportunity to engage sexually with another human. The male is likely even more aroused when with another than when alone because so many senses are being stimulated at once. It can be sensory overload. They cum too fast, and the other is left disappointed. The humiliation of this experience is almost unbearable.

Men NEED Orgasm Control

Masturbation and sexual intercourse are very different, I know. However, you can improve your capabilities for lasting longer in bed by learning the best way to jerk off for you. You see, men have a hard time when it comes to making decisions about their orgasms. This is why so many men cum too fast and need to learn how not to disappoint their sexual partners. You NEED a woman to control your orgasm for you and teach you how to jerk off. There is so much more to masturbation and solo sexual pleasure than just “rubbing one out,” and I would love to show you some of what I know.