Submissives form a vital part of the BDSM community, but the beauty of submission extends far beyond this sphere. A submissive man serves and worships his Goddess with respect, devotion, and humility. What sets a good submissive man apart, or in terms of Dominant/submissive dynamics, what makes a “good boy” a good boy? Here’s My exploration of the qualities that can help a submissive man serve and worship his Goddess better.
1. Consent is Paramount:
Before any dynamic is established, consent should be communicated. A good submissive knows the importance of discussing boundaries, hard limits, and safe words. They respect their partner’s wishes as much as their own, fostering a relationship built on mutual trust.
2. Understanding the Importance of Servitude:
A submissive’s role is often associated with service. It’s not just about following orders; it’s about understanding the needs and desires of their Dominant partner. A good submissive learns the art of anticipation – understanding their partner’s needs or desires before being asked. Taking the initiative when sending tributes is an attractive trait in submissive men.
3. Communication Skills:
A “good boy” knows that communication is key. They are open about their feelings, desires, fears, and concerns. By doing so, they ensure their dynamic remains healthy, fulfilling, and respectful. They also listen attentively, accepting feedback or commands without argument but with grace and understanding.
4. Patience and Self-Control:
In many D/s dynamics, patience and self-control are virtues. Whether it’s enduring a period of chastity, performing a task, or waiting for a command, a good submissive can manage their impulses and await guidance or rewards patiently. This ability is particularly important in orgasm denial or semen retention.
5. Honesty:
A good submissive is truthful, both with their Dominant and themselves. They express when they are uncomfortable, unhappy, or need a break. They are honest about their limits and what they can handle emotionally and physically. A good boy never ghosts and always communicates when they need a break.
6. Humility and Acceptance:
A sense of humility allows a submissive to accept their role without feeling less or undermined. They understand that being submissive does not mean being weak; it signifies strength and self-awareness. They wear their ‘good boy’ title with pride, free from shame or embarrassment.
7. Adaptability:
BDSM dynamics can involve various activities and situations. A ‘good boy’ is adaptable, ready to handle changes, and keen to learn and grow within the relationship.
8. Devotion:
True submissives are not just submissive while they’re horny; their submission extends into daily life. This isn’t about total control but a deep-seated devotion reflected in thoughtful gestures, respect, and care for their Dominant partner.
So, how can a submissive man serve and worship his Goddess better? The answer lies in embracing the qualities mentioned above. Remember, the best submissives aren’t perfect—they are human and make mistakes. However, they continuously strive for self-improvement, deeply respect their Dominant, and find their fulfillment in service and devotion. Understanding their desires and maintaining open communication with their Dominant create a fulfilling dynamic for both parties. That’s what makes a ‘good boy’ a good boy.
