How to Approach a FinDom A Guide for Submissives BLOG COVER

The realm of Financial Domination (FinDom) involves nuanced power dynamics between a submissive and a dominant – who, in this case, is referred to as a FinDom Goddess. As a submissive, knowing how to approach a FinDom Goddess properly is essential to building a respectful and fulfilling relationship. Here’s a guide to help you navigate this journey.

1. Do Your Homework:

Before reaching out to a potential FinDom Goddess, research to understand her preferences, expectations, and style. Most FinDom Goddesses have social media profiles or personal websites detailing their boundaries and the kind of relationship they seek. Being informed shows respect for her time and that you’re serious about your approach.

2. Be Respectful and Polite to your Potential FinDom:

When you make contact, remember that you’re speaking with someone who deserves respect. Be polite, use appropriate language, and avoid inappropriate remarks. This will set the foundation for positive communication.

3. Clearly State Your Intentions:

Being upfront about your intentions and desires from the start is crucial. You might express interest in becoming a long-term money slave or wish to try one session. Whichever it is, clear and honest communication from the beginning can prevent misunderstandings later. Let your potential Goddess know how and how often you plan to tribute.

4. Show Willingness to Submit to your FinDom:

Financial submission is at the core of this practice. Demonstrate your willingness to submit by being humble and obedient in your initial interactions. This doesn’t mean you should put yourself in financial jeopardy – financial submission should be based on your capabilities and comfort.

5. Be Patient:

Remember that a Goddess likely receives numerous messages and tributes daily. Be patient if you are still waiting for an immediate response. Avoid sending multiple follow-up messages, which can be seen as pestering. Try sending multiple tributes or larger amounts to get Her attention. But remember to respect Her time away from technology.

6. Initial Tribute:

Many Goddesses expect an initial tribute – a monetary gift or token of respect and sincerity. The tribute is not about the amount but the gesture. It shows that you understand the dynamics and are serious about your intentions. Ensure you send a tribute large enough to prove your intentions are genuine.

7. Honesty about Your Financial Capabilities:

While FinDom involves financial control, it should not lead to financial ruin. Be honest about your financial capabilities and limitations. A good FinDom Goddess will respect this and work within your means.

8. Prepare for Rejection:

Only some interactions will lead to a FinDom relationship. If a Goddess rejects your approach, respect her decision and move on gracefully.

The world of FinDom is fascinating, but it also requires careful navigation. Your approach to a FinDom Goddess can set the tone for your potential relationship. Honesty, respect, and good communication are key to building a successful and fulfilling FinDom relationship. Good luck with your journey in the realm of FinDom.