This isn’t the place for you if you want to jerk off about how hot chastity is. This is where it gets real. Check out My clips if you aren’t ready to get serious yet. If you are interested in pursuing 1-on-1 FemDom chastity training with Me, you WILL read EVERY word on this page at least twice. You can contact me if you have questions AFTER you read the ENTIRE page TWO OR MORE times. I am incredibly selective about who I lock in a chastity cage for Me. You MUST prove to Me that you deserve My attention and training. After reading this page, you will listen to this audio.
7 Easy Rules for Chastity Training
1. Respect the Journey: Your chastity journey is a personal commitment to your Goddess. Honor it by staying true to your promise and treating it with respect.
2. Open Communication: Share your feelings, experiences, and struggles honestly with your Goddess. Transparency fosters trust and strengthens your bond.
3. Daily Check-ins: Keep yourself accountable by sharing your progress with your Goddess daily. This can be a fun exchange that fosters intimacy and helps your Goddess guide your journey.
4. Creative Tributes: Express your dedication creatively. Cash tributes are always highly encouraged, but I also appreciate some creativity with tributes. Write a poem, compose a song, or create art to celebrate your Goddess and journey. This can add a fun twist to your experience.
5. Self-Care Rituals: Make self-care a part of your chastity journey. This can help you deal with stress and strengthen your resolve. Share your rituals with your Goddess and make it a shared experience.
6. Embrace Challenges: Each hurdle is an opportunity for growth. Celebrate your triumphs and learn from your struggles. This will make your journey more fulfilling and rewarding.
7. Community Engagement: Connect with like-minded individuals. Their experiences can provide valuable insights and make your journey more enjoyable. Follow My Twitter and engage with other fans in My live cam room.
Remember, the goal is not perfection but growth. Enjoy the journey and celebrate each step forward with your Goddess.
FemDom Chastity Common Terminology Definitions
Keyholder: A person who will be in charge of access to the keys to the user’s chastity device and who dominates by controlling their sexual functions and release. Keyholders may also dominate the user in other ways agreed upon when the user begins chastity training.
User: The person who will wear the chastity device, relinquishing control of their genitals to the Keyholder. See mental chastity below if wearing a chastity cage is unreasonable for you. The user may perform other acts of submission and servitude during chastity.
Chastity device: A genital cage made of metal or plastic used to restrict access to the wearer’s genitals to prevent sexual arousal, satisfaction, or release. This device is worn almost at all times throughout your femdom chastity training.
Mental Chastity: Following ALL terms of this agreement EXCEPT for wearing a physical chastity cage. That’s it. You CAN do chastity without wearing a cage with good awareness and strong willpower. Some find mental chastity to be easier than physical.
Hard limits: boundaries set by each individual regarding types of play/interaction that they will not consent to participate. Hard limits are non-negotiable, and everyone involved WILL respect hard limits.
Masturbation: any form of stimulation by the user to the genitals or other areas of the body intended for sexual pleasure whether or not the user achieves orgasm or removes the chastity device (if wearing one).
Use the proper equipment for your training.
The user is responsible for using a chastity device of the correct sizing. If the user owns a cage, they will show it to the Keyholder. The user will follow the product website’s guidelines to measure themselves to choose their chastity cage size correctly. The user MUST NOT order a size up or down from the site’s size guidelines. The guide is realistic for long-term wear. Trust that the chastity cage designers know more than you do about this one.
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- The device may use an internal or external locking mechanism
- Do not use flimsy materials such as silicone. I prefer you use a plastic or metal cage.
How to Properly Secure Your Chastity Cage
The user must be honest for the femdom chastity training to be practical. If the user wears a cage that accepts an external padlock, they will wear disposable numbered locks to lock their chastity cage. The user agrees not to touch, use or tamper with the disposable locks other than in an emergency or for hygiene purposes.
If wearing a cage that uses an internal locking mechanism, the user will maintain possession of both keys for emergencies but agree not to touch, use or tamper with these keys other than in an emergency or for hygiene purposes. The user will use disposable numbered locks to fix the key to open the chastity device ONLY when/if necessary. While the keys are locked up, they should be somewhere where you cannot use them to open the chastity device without breaking the disposable numbered lock.
Acceptable methods to store the chastity keys are as follows:
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- In a transparent box (or other device intended for this purpose) sealed with a disposable lock
- Attach the key(s) with a disposable lock to:
- the back of a mounted TV
- under the sink
- dangling from a secure point on the ceiling
- from a wire in the trunk of your car
- etc.
Daily Chastity Check-ins for FemDom Training Purposes
IF YOU ARE UNWILLING TO SEND PHOTO/VIDEO, you can still participate in the honor system!
Users will send a daily chastity check in each morning of their femdom training with:
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- A picture of their key and disposable numbered lock with clearly visible numbers. The photo shows the genitals securely locked in their chastity device. You must stamp the photos with the date and time (apps are available on your phone).
- A good morning message to Me, thanking Me for the gift of chastity. The user may, at this time, provide Me with any relevant updates about their life or their chastity journey. Your morning check-in DM is also an excellent time to ask questions or raise concerns.
- Since I am active online in the early morning, it is an excellent time to discuss potential playtime.
The BEST place for chastity check-ins is on My Loyal Fans.
Long-Term Chastity Hygiene, Maintenance & Safety
Health, Hygiene, and Emergencies during Long-Term FemDom Chastity Training
You always have My permission and the autonomy to remove the cage for health, safety, or hygiene reasons. This permission includes but is not limited to medical issues or extreme pain/discomfort. However, the user agrees not to exploit this term for sexual satisfaction. You may only remove the cage without permission in an emergency.
The user may remove the device for ANY doctor’s appointments/examinations, medical emergencies, and any situation where the user is preventing physical harm to their body. The user agrees to re-secure the device once any medical concern has been resolved and inform the Keyholder immediately of any changes to their chastity status.
Showering and Hygiene
The user agrees to maintain good personal hygiene. I highly encourage you to keep your pubic hair trimmed short or entirely shaved. I’m not particularly eager to look at pubic hair anyways, and the hair tends to catch in the cage and cause unnecessary pain. READ THIS if you want more details about hygiene while locked in chastity.
Are you ready to fully embrace FemDom and start chastity training?
If not, read My FemDom blog posts and check out My Chastity videos while you think about it.
If YES, welcome the first step towards your new life of true submissive bliss. After reading this page, you will listen to this audio. DM Me as soon as possible and discuss our potential new arrangement.
I look forward to getting to know you and seeing you grow as a submissive through your chastity training journey in My FemDom Empire.
